Two things define you. Your patience when you have nothing, and your attitude...– unknown (via allthingssoulful)
Gradient Lair: Men Who Use Music As A Weapon... →
gradientlair: I’ve been in public places (and I know that they are public, so the expectation of silence and/or privacy are minimal, however the acceptance of street harassment is a HELL NO) where I was sitting somewhere desolate, and there were other places to sit, yet a Black man would come sit by me. I… This is kinda hard for me to believe. I’m not say that she hasn’t...
mystic-spiritus: I need to raise $1080 this month to cover this month and last months college payment, as well as rent and money I owe a friend. That’s doable, right? Right? Sure if you have a job that pays $1100/2 wks
A Christian man who takes the lead in sexual purity, and who tells the woman...– Richard D. Phillips and Sharon L. Phillips (via healerofmyscars-loverofmysoul)
5 Great: Lipsticks for Girl Monsters
girl-guts: art by Kailey So if you know me at all you know I’m obsessed with makeup, and most specifically, lip products that scare my father. I’m attracted to lipsticks that aren’t your traditional red, pinks, nudes. Since I’m sure it’s up your alley to I thought I’d introduce you to my favorite brands & colors. Read More I’m searching for Matte red lipstick that is...
I’m tired of this stereotype about black women not standing by their black man....– I hate all generalization of black men and women. My blood would be boiling at comments about how black women aren’t supportive, patient, too independent, have unrealistic standards and the like. It made me upset because comments like these are misogynistic in nature. Why wouldn’t a man...
dovesflyfrommyheart asked: Hey! I just saw your post about black women, sexuality, and the church. I think I read the same exact article and both my friend and myself just looked at each other lol I don't believe it's smart to ignore anything with the belief that it'll work itself out or whatever. Esp when it comes to sexual feelings and acts. Folks are afraid to voice up and so they try to shut everyone...
Gradient Lair: My First Kiss →
gradientlair: The first time I kissed a guy was not until the 11th grade. He was a total nerd like I was. We were at the library. In the fiction stacks. I just realized that I had my first kiss in a library. I’m such a dork. And I was in high school not middle. Late bloomer. Lol. — Trudy (@thetrudz) … I was 19 when I got my first kiss. It was a lot more exciting than I expected it to...
I still need to get hip to this Tumblr thing. I feel like I would love it more if I actually had the time and resoucres to do explore it the way I want to. In any event I followed somemore people..So maybe this will stir up some kind of trouble…which that’s all I really need in my life.
mystic-spiritus asked: Was just randomly searching things through tumblr and a post of yours with a picture of you wearing a hair wrap came up. Just want to let you know that it looks gorgeous!